Always say Thank You…

Okay, so my name was called 32 times tonight by my kids. Out of those 32 times not one" thank you" was said for anything. Now I'm not saying this to insinuate that my children have poor manners. That's not the case, they are all very well mannered. When I first began writing it down … Continue reading Always say Thank You…

Why me Lord?

Why me Lord? This burden is to much to carry. How much longer Lord will you tarry? I know you are with me until the end, But how much more can I bend? Even during my nights of mourning, You reassure me, "Joy comes in the morning!" When I feel lost and everyone's gone, you … Continue reading Why me Lord?

Weather changes and T.B.I. changes

Living in Eastern N.C. my whole life, I've experienced some unusual weather during certain seasons. Take today for example. It is winter time. Today, it was a beautiful, sunny and a warm 80 degrees, with a slight breeze, it's February 7th. Tomorrow is supposed to be in the Mid 70's with similar conditions. Tomorrow night … Continue reading Weather changes and T.B.I. changes

A Mountain or Spec of Dust

Many times, you will have negative things and situations come into your life. You, can only do so much to try and fix the problem with what you have at your disposal and knowledge. I, being guilty of this, tried to fix things dealing with my TBI on my own. After countless failed attempts, I … Continue reading A Mountain or Spec of Dust

The Long Night

The Long night is now upon you, the memories of the day soon to haunt you. Did you do this right, did you do this wrong? What will happen next? These thoughts make the night so long. Hear the distant train rolling through the quiet of the night, think of it's power, can you tackle … Continue reading The Long Night

Sometimes it’s good to hear the “old you” and know they’re still in there.

Going through some old videos I've posted onto Facebook through the years of me singing and came across this. Really hit me hard with everything I have and what I am still going through. Just what I needed to hear though, maybe you as well! https://www.facebook.com/lance.lucas.790/videos/1389433074409489/ Goodnight!

Be slow to Anger…

Everyday life is filled with confusion and struggles of things that can aggravate, frustrate and anger you. This can be said for any person and definitely victims of T.B.I. Prior to my injury I had a care free life. What I mean by this is, things didn't bother me or upset me badly as they … Continue reading Be slow to Anger…

Time to Reflect…

A year ago, I honestly did not see myself making it this far! Now that I am here, I know I just want more of what I consider, "Normal Lance", back! I've had and still struggle with my times of what I call, "Darkness." However, I had and still have great people that are here … Continue reading Time to Reflect…

Which are you: The Soggy Wet Christian or a Fighting with Fire Christian?

Still continuing this long fight with my TBI and ailments that are associated with it. It's been a really rough past 3 weeks for me. I've reached the point where I've felt like throwing in the towel. I came across something that I had written down years past and it really hit me hard Today. … Continue reading Which are you: The Soggy Wet Christian or a Fighting with Fire Christian?

I’m tired of it all but it’s going to be alright…

I don't normally post articles when I'm like this. However, I want people to see the downside of the emotional roller coaster that some people with TBI suffer from. I've had a bad past week and a half. I'm tired of it all. Recap, 15 months Post TBI, Pons-Brain Bleed and Front Temporal Lobe damage. … Continue reading I’m tired of it all but it’s going to be alright…

Looks Can Be Deceiving. Educate Yourself Before Speaking…

One irritating factor that I've come to despise from my Traumatic Brain Injury,(TBI), is hearing, "Wow you look great now" or "You don't look hurt?!?!" These comments are hurtful and are a constant reminder of the issues myself and others struggle with now, due to the TBI. I'm sure there are countless others that have … Continue reading Looks Can Be Deceiving. Educate Yourself Before Speaking…